A chain of hope

From the article in Fredericksburg.com:

At noon Friday, the University of Mary Washington will observe the statewide day of mourning declared by Gov. Timothy Kaine for the victims of the tragedy at Virginia Tech by creating a human “Chain of Hope” along Campus Walk starting at the bell tower. A moment of silence will be observed.

I just came back from this memorial. I need to say something.

At 11:55, I arrived at the site along with a colleague and a student. There was no chain of hope on the horizon that I could see. A sign pointed to an “admissions event.” A snackmobile was parked on the far sidewalk. People were walking back and forth, chatting under a bright warm sun.

I wondered if I had gotten the time or location wrong. To my left, I saw some women wearing orange clothing and orange ribbons. I asked one if I had come to the right place and time for the chain of hope. She said she thought so.

At 11:57, nothing had changed. People stood and milled about.

At 11:58, everything began to change.

At 11:59, a line had formed, stretching from the new bell tower as far as I could see down campus walk.

Then a woman said, “it’s noon, everyone.” Silence emerged from the sound of a second ago.

We stood holding hands in that silence. Photographers and videographers walked up and down, documenting the moment. We stood a long time. I sensed that none of us wanted to let go.

After what might have been five minutes, applause sounded all up and down the line, so that the chain need never break.

Something got to the core of me as I watched individual agency form itself into community in that minute between 11:58 and 11:59. I wish we could find and enact this affirmation every day, just because it is another day, and we are together.

It will flame out, like shining from shook foil,
It gathers to a greatness, like the ooze of oil
Crushed.

5 thoughts on “A chain of hope

  1. I was there too (I believe I saw you) and I was just overcome with emotion. Watching the chain come to together, seeing it reaching farther than I could see and the moment of silence was a great reminder of how we are all in this world together.
    Hope in the midst of a confusing world, it was beautiful.

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  3. I was in Seco as I needed to eat quickly before my presentation at one, and they had notes out saying they’d stop serving at noon for five minutes of silence. At noon, someone turned the lights out in every room and everyone, even those already eating, paused and all of Seco was silent, which, as you know is amazing. Just as you experienced, after five minutes no one seemed ready to break the silence. As the support system for someone who lost at least one person in every group they were involved with at Tech, its wonderful to see that support extended throughout the campus. The candle light vigil last night was beautiful as well, and again, no one wanted to break the circle and leave.

  4. I agree, the chain was amazing and i’m so glad it came together. I’ve rarely felt such a sense of peace and togetherness. As tough as this time has been, yesterday provided this amazing feeling of comfort and love, and I really didn’t want it to end. It was a beautiful tribute, and I hope it worked out as well for other schools.

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